I started my blog to document my children's lives, but somewhere along the way it became more than that. Because I don't write in a journal, this blog became a reference for us, a memory finder. If I wanted to remember that time when Carter got that disgusting pink eye, or when Abby started walking, I can look back and see. It's been a wonderful resource to have. The other day Brian got on to me because I've stopped blogging, but the memories haven't. So...even though I know no one reads my blog anymore, I've got to keep documenting our life, because one day I will be sad that those small details and moments in life were not preserved. Cuz knowing us, we WILL forget them.
SO. Here goes.........
Andrew is now almost 10 months. He's been crawling since his 7th month birthday, almost to the day. He's a fast little crawler but has no desire to start walking. FINE. WITH. ME! He looooooves his Daddy. You should see the look on his face when he comes home from work every day. He writes himself out of my arms and makes a beeline to Brian. He loves to give me kisses, but they're really snotty, slobbery smearings all over my face. I love it though. He can say mama, but I don't think its directed at me exactly. It's more of a chant when he needs me or is in "distress."
Insurance has denied his genetic testing twice so far, but we haven't fought on our side yet. I haven't talked myself into making the call yet. And we haven't had another hearing test for him, but he seems to hear all frequencies even at quiet decibles, so I'm not too concerned at this point.
He gets into the toilet, loves closing the door on himself and then getting mad about it, puts everything and anything in his mouth but is really good about not swallowing non-food items. (so glad he can tell the difference.) He bumps his head on EVERYTHING and always has small red bumps and scratches on his very bald head. He has four teeth and working on a few more. He is typically wonderful and we love him.
Carter is 4.5 and small and athletic. His hair is growing faster and thicker now, but it's still white, which I LOVE. He can do penny drops on the monkey bars and scale the climbing wall in 20 seconds flat. He and Abby have both become proficient swimmers so this summer has been nice. He is talking better, and the speech path sees no reason why he won't be in mainstream kindergarten next year, as long as we keep the same trajectory. He talks like he has a mouth full of mush though, and that's something that we constantly work on. He's getting better, though. He is the sweetest little boy, and loves to flirt. He knows how to get positive attention from the ladies, but he has also been a little naughty around his friends at church. I know they say, boys will be boys, but I don't want him to be one of those kids that people dread having in his class. I'm afraid he will become a class clown, which isn't so bad if he doesn't disrupt or misbehave. I really can't complain though, because for a while we wondered what kind of life or hearing impaired kids would have, and it turns out that they are going to be pretty much completely normal, which means we get to deal with all "normal" problems most parents face. :)
Brian has not had to travel for a very long time, almost a year, (knock on wood) and so he is home a lot more. Carter really likes to hang out with daddy, and its so cute to see. He also loves the computer a little too much. He could play on PBS.org all day if we let him. I'm glad we don't have video games, or it would be really bad around here.
Abby is almost 6, and she's big for her age. Poor Carter may never catch up. :) She loves kindergarten and seems to be doing really well. She is at Davis Elementary, which is a mainstream school in Plano, but she is still in the Plano Regional Day School Program for the Deaf and has pullout instruction for language arts only. So she is mostly mainstreamed, and we are pretty confident that she will get to go to her home campus next year in Wylie. It's a relief because the drive is a beast, but mainstream will be a little scary too. But we have a full year left before I have to worry about that....so I won't. Abby still loves to draw, but more that that she enjoys doing projects and making her own things, like books, computers, folders, purses, pianos, all out of paper. I've given up on having paper for myself, and just let her use it. I don't want to squelch that vividly creative brain of hers. Abby just started a cheerleading class, and she's actually pretty good at it. I mean, you wouldn't think that it takes a lot of talent to be a cheerleader (sorry, cheerleader friends) but compared to the rest of the kids in her class, she seems to have more of a knack for it than the rest. And she's got the personality for sure. So I never thought I'd say it, but I wouldn't mind if Abby wanted to become a cheerleader. Phew. that felt good to get that off my chest.
Abby seems to have an influx of emotions lately. Is that common for five year old girls? Yesterday she go sooo angry at me about every little thing while we were in the car and she ended up in this tearful screaming fit, which is not like her. So I stopped the car and got out and walked over to her and asked her why she was so angry and she said, "I DON'T KNOW!!!!" It sucks to be a girl, I just didn't realize it started so early!
Anyway, here are a few pictures of the last few months.
Andrew's first cookie.
Abby lost her first tooth on 8/28/11. I pulled it out. Should I document that story too? Oh well, some other time. :)
Andrew at 9 months
Andrew at 7 months. Started crawling on 6/27. He usually has clothes on, by the way...
Abby drawing a picture of the Nauvoo temple.
Carter is not too keen on my taking his picture, that's why there's none shown. I have pics of Galveston that I will post soon.